A few weeks ago, we asked the CrossFit 4504 crew to let us know ‘What makes you proud?’ A whiteboard was provided along with colourful markers, so our members could provide answers in their own time. It seemed an easy enough question, yet there was a surprisingly slow response from our athletes. We know they are proud of their achievements, both in and out of the box. It just seemed that writing something down for everyone to see wasn’t something they were initially comfortable in doing. The board eventually filled with reasons our members were proud of – in themselves and in others. We know that pride is not just about a desire for recognition, but we shouldn’t feel shame in the enjoyment of that recognition either.
Why is pride important to us? Let’s talk about why and how it is awesome to be able to express pride…
- It’s Motivating
Whether we acknowledge it or not, our emotions play a huge part in fuelling our motivation to succeed. Pride is a powerful emotion that it is generally triggered in response to achieving a goal or making a conscious effort with self-improvement. Showing pride in your accomplishments – whether it be improving your ‘Fran’ time or going without cigarettes for over 2 weeks – creates a positive feeling inside of us. A feeling of worth. Pride is different to arrogance in that you don’t HAVE to let every single person know that you have smashed a goal or two. They will see it. In your expression. In your posture. In the way you approach your training. In how you react to life! Taking pride in yourself, your achievements and your actions signals to others that you are confident and you are important. And you are!
The motivation you attain by expressing that pride, can lead to many more of your goals being accomplished. Pride does not equal conceit. Pride is something you can show in others and in yourself – motivation for all.
- It’s Inspiring!
We spoke of ways to be inspiring in our last blog and how showing pride is one way to inspire others to succeed. Letting others see how proud you are of YOUR achievements will inspire them to push forward with their own goals. It’s not a matter of being the best, it’s more about giving yourself the opportunity to be YOUR BEST. Others will take note of your pride and share in it with you. This is where inspiration kicks in. To know that your efforts are being recognised is cause for pride in itself. But to know that your efforts are inspiring others in the process? What a phenomenal feeling of pride that can give you.
- It Gives You Courage
Successes and failures are a part of life. You are not always going to succeed at everything the way you would wish to. In fact – and this could not be more true in the CrossFit method of training – there will always be some things you suck at! Do you just give up on those weaknesses? Heck NO! The way you handle failures says a lot about your character and having the courage to succeed with pride but also fail with pride shows an immense amount of courage.
Showing pride in every achievement, no matter how small, can build momentum to help you through those times when nothing works and you feel as though you suck at everything. You don’t suck at everything – it just seems that way. Persistence itself is something to be proud of and taking note of every achievement, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant can give you the courage to continue if things get rough. This is also when your past achievements can provide you with your greatest strengths. Knowing that you have overcome obstacles in the past gives you strength and courage to push through. Whether in relation to your CrossFit training or life in general, being able to express pride not only allows you to take control of yourself, it reminds you of the courage you continue to draw from yourself in your ability to keep moving. A 2-steps sideways, 3-steps backwards, 4-steps forward kind of movement – yet still moving toward your goals. Tackling all obstacles head on…maybe with a certain amount of trepidation – but also a bucket load of courage and pride.
The road to success in CrossFit training and indeed life in general is often bumpy and at times filled with horseshit. We are forced to make choices which seem horrible either way – do we divert along a long, bumpy road or trudge wearily through the horseshit? Neither a pleasant way to travel, but eventually we are cruising again on a smooth highway, celebrating our achievements after a little re-evaluation and a whole lotta pride.
Just remember to occasionally look in your rear vision mirror from time to time. This will serve to remind you just how far you have already come in your journey, how many obstacles you have overcome and how hard you have worked to become a better version of you. You may have a ways to go yet, but take PRIDE in the fact that you are here. Right here, right now. You are amazing and you SHOULD be proud of that. We are proud of you!